Gentility

Gentility (مروت) means social superiority as demonstrated by polite and respectable manners, behavior or appearances, moral concession, respect, kindness, compassion, hospitality, tolerance, humanity, love, generosity and goodness, etc.

Gentility is the beauty of moral values. A virtuous person or family is the embodiment of humanity, justice, mercy, chivalry, compassion, honor, sincerity, tolerance, politeness and civility. Their style of sitting and dismissal, their happy attire, the etiquette of their conversation, their mannerisms, the sweetness of their tone of voice and their manner of living testify to their superiority.

If you want to see the high standard of any society, you have to pay attention to their good behavior, how attentive they listen to the person in front of them, how much they discount their mistakes and misbehavior and how much they observe their efforts and they do not use stinginess to favor them.

Man is prone to mistakes and in every part of his life there is a possibility of making a mistake somewhere. And when we are talking to someone or dealing with someone, while it is important to keep the rules and regulations in mind, it is also important to follow gentility in order to uphold our character and morals.

If Allah Almighty enables us to have the status or authority in an office and suffice to resolve the issues and requests of our subordinates or employees in accordance with the law and do not take into account, the weaknesses or compulsions of the plaintiff then it is called apathy.

In fact, working with gentility reflects human masculinity. The person doing the deed is actually showing his generosity, showing his nobility and proving his dignity.

Lack of gentility creates bad temper in a person, makes a person stingy and creates selfishness.

ہمہ عیب خلق دیدن نہ مروت است نہ مردی

نگہی   بہ   خویش   کن   کہ   تو   ہم   گناہ   داری    

تمام عیوب دنیا والوں میں تلاش کرنا نہ مروت ہے نہ مردانگی

ایک نگاہ اپنے آپ پر ڈال کر دیکھ کہ تو بھی گناہ رکھتا ہے

Finding all the flaws in the world is neither gentility nor masculinity

Take a look at yourself and see if you too have sin.

Abdul Qayum Khan Ghouri - Lahore Pakistan