Human Relationships

The most important secret of Happy and Beautiful Life lies in Lovely and Intimate Relationships.

Relationships are made up of the leaven of trust, sincerity and love.  Human relationships are linked to the cords of emotion.

If the feeling is one-sided, then surely this relationship is linked to faith, respect, attachment, trust, or in rare cases with economic need. 

One-way relationships are enslaved to human desires and disconnected when the heart desires or when needed hold back.

Where bilateral relationships are related to feeling, these relationships are also connected to our breath. The bond between these relationships is very painful and deadly. 

Generally, in a bilateral relationship, no one person can ever think negatively for the other person, nor will he ever do anything that is heart-wrenching.

Whatever the relationship, that seeks attention and sacrifice in its own context. It seeks love and affection. If the bonds of love are tied to love, what good is it. Holding on to the strongest strings of the universe, there will never be a feeling of emptiness or loneliness. 

Every valuable relationship you have with the person will become an allurer to you.

Every relationship in a person's life has special significance. There are many emotions within a human being which satisfy the relationships that surround us. Through all these relationships our desires are fulfilled; some of these relationships grow and fulfill our desires. 

These relationships give us inspiration. There are many relationships where our desire is fulfilled and some relationships are what we want.

We find closeness, attachment, love in relationships and all that is the basic desire of a human being. Because of these relationships, our lives are happy, our health is good and our mood is good.

Relationships are a special reward from Allah. They should be valued and do not let them be weaken. Because where our relationships are weak we become weak. The relationships provide a sense of happiness and sadness. 

Relationships play an important role in honoring and strengthening our bond to our loved ones. Relationships are everlasting and part of our social life.

The sweetness of the attitude and the loss of or diminishing of the taste make the relationship bitter.

Taking ordinary matters as personal ego, may develop a gap between the strongest relationship.

Those who are sincere, they do not need to tell that they are sincere with you. Their honesty is assessed by their actions. The stronger the human relationships, the more sensitive they are towards each other.

There was a time when being a relative was an honor. Because the fragrance of mutual union and unrequited love was reflected in relationships and people were happily and proudly introducing their relatives. If someone touched a hook, other relatives felt distressed and prayed wholeheartedly. It was considered his duty to hide the weakness and the evil of one of his relatives because honor was intrinsic.

The same relationship went away from blood relationships to our village and further to our city people. It was the endeavor of everyone that we should share with our relatives and our villagers the honor and achievement that Almighty has given us.

In fact, a relationship is what one desires, is sincere, respect is passion, service is passion, sacrifice is passion. And above all there should be no material interest, no financial gain or no lust.

In today's era, people from one family are at odds with each other and people in the same house are unaware of each other. Now the only and only material interests are left in the relationship. People build relationships with each other for their own purposes. Selfishness, apathy, mental devastation, jealousy, moral decadence and selfishness are facing the loss of emotional attachment, charming and loving relationships.

Unless there is a desire for love in the relationship, the real relationship does not exist, and if the desire is from the strangers, then the relationship is established. It is because of this desire that the relationship with the parents takes over all the relationships, because the desire from the parents is never diminished and there is no question of ending it. Whereas, the desire for siblings over time grows into other people and your desire for them diminishes. Because their own family responsibilities force them to share what they want with you.

Likewise, in the family life, some wives transfer the desire from their husband to their children. In such a case, the whole house falls into disrepair and the house is no longer home, but only become a house. Children also do not coexist and children do not stay close to their parents. And in the days to come, these children will not be able to maintain the love and intimacy of their parents. Rather, they are lost in search of new destinations and do not look back.

The most precious relationship in the world is the relationship between mother and father, which is never infrequent and incompatible. And there is no substitution of these two relationships. The relationship of parents to the beauty and happiness of life is the nectar that protects a person from all anxiety and hassle. But sadly, parents are not always with humans.

So why not build a relationship that always stays with man, and in compassion that is seventy times more than the love of mother and still remains with man even after his death. 

This relationship is a bond of the soul which can be formed with Allah. So that humans can maintain their existence. And by becoming one with the Lord of the universe, the relationship between worship and spirituality is integrated. And in every difficulty, confer with his Lord, seek the solution of the problem, and in the Day of Judgement he will have a victory. 

The relationship that is formed with the Lord is never lost, but in every moment when everyone leaves us, only the glory of Almighty God stands with us.

Abdul Qayum Khan Ghouri - Lahore Pakistan